Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Just can't blog/write

Well, I constantly think that the ability to write will return to me so I put off admitting that it has left. However, I feel guilty when I get those reports from the site meter telling me that people are still dropping by--probably expecting to find something to read.

What can I say? Write? Obviously nothing.

I basically have gone through a life changing event and it has left me changed. Unfortunately, it has left me wordless, unable to put any of myself on paper.

However, it hasn't left me hopeless. So I'm keepin the blog for a bit longer. Hoping that maybe, just maybe, a new writer will emerge from the mess that is me.



Lulu said...

I am really sorry that you feel you can not write anymore but taking care of yourself and family is the most important thing!

If you ever decide to come back your dedicated readers will still be here!!!

Please feel better soon! If you ever need someone to chat to I am always willing! As I am sure others are too!

Take care,
Love Lulu

Donna said...

I hope new writing is able to emerge eventually and that the life-changing event is not a traumatic one.

kozoji said...

I have the exact same problem from time to time, and some of my most prolific writer friends also have the same problem with their blogs. The thing about a blog is that it can't be forced, so don't force it honey! Sometimes I get a roll on and write every day, some times a month goes by. I know other writers who will just write a sentence to break the silence - and I am something like that....

It's like the calligraphy work by Aida Mitsuo:
とにかく具体的にうごいてごらん具体的に動けば具体的な答えが出るから (you can find more of his stuff at http://www.mitsuoaida.com/)... "anyway, move concretely. Move concretely and a concrete answer will make itself known".

Christelle said...

I agree with Lulu, your dedicated readers will still be here and don't feel you have to rush back when you're not ready. I hope you feel better soon and I'm sorry to hear that you've been going through what sounds like such a hard time :(

azumarisan said...

Sorry to hear you are "a mess" but we, your readers are here for you and always will be. Don't worry about not blogging, we care more about your well being than the fact of you writing, or not.

Take care of yourself. :)

D. N. said...

Hey, you'll write when you feel like it! Meanwhile, we will be waiting.


Sara said...

I still come to your blog to read some of your past entries and check for updates!!!

I'm sure your inner writer will be back when she's ready, for now, hopefully you are taking care of yourself and your family!!

Best wishes!

Tigermama said...

You can write whatever and whenever you want. I will continue to check for updates. Feel free to send me an private email too...sometimes that helps!

kaimacat said...

Exactly, there is no point pushing genius:) Honestly, just take care of yourself and do what you feel you can do. Let the blog stay in cyberspace. If you feel like doing it again it is here. If not then we can still enjoy what you have done so far and keep the connection with you that way.

I really hope you leave the "messy" feeling behind and find the new you is just as great as the old one with a few differences.

Take care, thinking of you

Anonymous said...


Taking breaks is important, but you're too talented to just stop.

Wishing you all the best and hoping you'll continue to entertain and make your readers think; you're so good at both.
ohime xox

kate said...

I hope you're okay and hanging in there. I'll check back. Take care of yourself. The words will return. Just give yourself time.

Sheri said...

I haven't been around the blog world much but just wanted to say that I hope you are alright and sending my best wishes your way. I'd love to hear how things are going, even if you think you aren't writing as eloquently as before.
Take care!

Kim said...

Hi! I just wanted to leave you a note to let you know I was stopping by again to see how you were doing and if you had been able to write yet.

Anonymous said...

I'm also checking in... I hope you're doing well and will share some of your writing with us soon.
Willing to wait as long as it takes,
ohime xox

Sheri said...

Thanks for your comment on my blog about the fish. I remember reading your blog about fish, too.
Hope all is well.

Vyazz said...

I don't suppose something like the ability to write can leave you for good. Its just a momentary lull. I feel absolutely uninspired most of the time......

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